ORAL SEX POSITIONS (MY FAVORITE 3)

Good oral sex can make the difference between a hot and fun oral romp and an awkward ten minutes that leaves you with a pain in the neck. While it’s true that most of us are just excited to be receiving oral sex and may not care so much about the position, for oral sex lovers (both the giving and receiving kind) changing up the position can also change the experience. Positions may give either or both partners more access to touching body parts and certain positions easily highlight the power dynamic potential of oral sex.

 

ON THE KNEES: This classic position (well classic in porn anyway) can evoke the power dynamics in oral sex well. Benefits of this position are the visuals, the fact that the giving partner may be able to use their hands, as well as being a position that doesn’t require a lot of room and can be gotten into and out of relatively quickly. The drawback is that it’s hard on the knees (a pillow under them helps a bit) and it can be hard on the neck as well.

 

BETWEEN THE LEGS: A much more comfortable position than being on your knees, in this common position the receiving partner lies on the back with the giver further down between their legs. The receiving partner can also turn on their side, and this may be even more comfortable for a giving partner who has neck problems.

 

SITTING ON THE FACE: If you’re prone to giggling this may not be the oral sex position for you. Otherwise this position can work well. It’s great if the giver has any mobility restrictions or fatigues easily, and it also provides a lot of dominance/submission potential. The receiver can sit over the givers face either crouching or with their shins on the bed, and can even lean forward and support their own upper body with their hands (so they’re kind of in a rear entry position).

WHAT ARE YOURS? 

¿BIG GAY LOVE?

What do you guys think about the concept of polygamy for gay men? You know, having more than one husband/lover. I don’t mean a hidden relationship (that is cheating). Having two men (probably more) in your life and they know of each other existence. Will you for instance be a third person in a relationship? Is it possible to be totally in love (not lust) with two or more guys and having a relationship with all of them?

SUNDAY CHRISTIANS...

Let me start off by saying that I believe in God, the God of Jesus Christ, the God of Mohammed, the God of George Bush, the God of Saddam Hussein…you get my drift! While it is true that most of the world’s citizens are @ the very least CHRISTIANS, why do the minorities that ascribe to other religions find little OR no comfort despite the so called BASIC right to pursue one's religious preferences? I mean more than half of them are merely SUNDAY CHRISTIANS anyways, so why do they highlight their beliefs and shun those that want it? Do you think this is the case because of the BOLD and BASIC idea the Constitution of the world in its preface professed to do little more than to acknowledge this fact? These SUNDAY CHRISTIANS LORD over the rest of the world that they are a nation founded upon CHRISTIAN principles. Is that right? Does this group of persons seem to present that they and they alone have a DIRECT private line to God? Moreover they seem to think that they are QUALIFIED and state without equivocation who is the Lord's anointed. They’ve set up a hierarchical system in God's house parallel to royalty OR the system of protocol accorded to heads of state. There is this pastor who refers to his wife as FIRST LADY…Doesn’t anyone ever wonder if this man is subconsciously projecting his own transgendered self-image upon his FIRST LADY? This HEAD of the SUNDAY CHRISTIANS enriches himself by freely instilling fear of God into his follower. After all who wants to feel the eternal flames of Hell by NOT acknowledging them? SHIT, they only EMPHASIZE God’s love N’ compassion…right? So, out of fear, we week after week, and in some instances, day after day, support this action because it eases OUR conscience? I find it so miraculous how we give SO generously to the man in charge, resigned inevitably to the fact that we are born in sin and are merely obliged to try to better. I would fill God's bank account with money that goes a long way in influencing HIM not to let us suffer the eternal pangs of hell's damnation…AH WELL, THERE GOES EVERYONE ELSE…IN OTHER WORDS, RELIGIOUS MINORITIES COULD PERHAPS ALLEGE BIAS, BUT THAT IS A MATTER FOR THE SUNDAY CHRISTIANS & CONSTITUTIONAL LAWYERS…& WE ALL KNOW HOW THAT’S GOING TO TURN OUT, DON’T WE? SUFFICE TO NOTE THAT THE FEELING OF PREJUDICE DOES EXIST & IT IS REINFORCED BY SUNDAY CHRISTIANS WHO SELECTIVELY RELY UPON THE CONSTITUTION & THE BIBLE IN VENTING THEIR INTOLERANCE AGAINST THOSE THEY DEEM ARE AGAINST GOD…I GUESS THEY ARE RIGHT BECAUSE THEY ARE GOD’S CHOSEN PEOPLE WHO PERVADE THEIR BELIEFS ON EVERY STREET CORNER, EVERY BAR ROOM, EVERY PROFESSION, EVERY NEWSPAPER THAT TOUCHES VIRTUALLY ALL WALKS OF LIFE…

BE CAREFUL

BE CAREFUL is a 1998 duet by R&B artist Sparkle and R. Kelly which charted @ #1 on Billboard's R&B Monitor for a staggering six consecutive weeks. Its first week at top 40, it was most added record and the cinematic video quickly moved into heavy rotation on every major video outlet. The record reached #7 in the UK Singles Chart. Sparkle really showed SOUL in this song and I think it one her best ever, so do enjoy it…

¿WHAT ABOUT THIS?

Did you ever meet someone in a bar, a club, on the internet OR just walking in the streets AND found that the chemistry between the two of you was SO explosive that you just couldn’t wait to get into each other? Isn’t it interesting that besides our intelligence and rational thinking, the thing that REALLY separates us from animals is our ability to really enjoy sex? It can be done with a partner, a total stranger AND many others at the same time. Sex is THE forbidden fruit and that tastes oh so sweet; it sparks our DEEPEST fantasies and DARKEST dreams. Yet this INTENSE moment of pleasure, allows us to give in to a side of our personality that no one but yourself and your partner of the moment knows about. When I reflect on my sexual past, I knew why I did who I did…But I can’t help but wonder WHAT ABOUT THIS NEED FOR SEX that sets our souls on fire, only to feel the burn of a HOT volcano after? Our bodies stand @ attention and it like we have NO voice, NO choice but to yield in a world where SEX has become more AND more accessible for everyone. So how does one REALLY cope? Too many of us ASSOCIATE SEX as merely having a good time. I get that this is our way of PRESERVING our individuality and we are who we are, but then again there is SO much more to SEX than just sex…right?  SEX is like a movie that keeps some of us from feeling lonely because it gives us a chance to ESCAPE from a lack of self love N’ esteem…When we have sex with another, we need to realize that each person comes with a story, concentrated around the beauty and blemish of the human body N’ mind. We place each other in the spotlight, show our naked bodies, while hiding our souls. This brings to mind a FAVORITE movie quote of mine that says, WHEN YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE, YOUR BODY MAKES A COMMITMENT TO THEM WHETHER YOU VERBALIZE IT OR NOT…So then it stands to reason that the dividing line between the practical sense AND the social expectations of SEX is COMPLETELY unobtainable because they don’t really exist? CLEARLY we are OVERWHELMED by sex because SO many of us conform to a stereotype that shouldn’t exist in the first place. And because of this we have the idea of SEX all wrong… After reflecting on sex, relationships failed, chances lost AND the fear of ending up alone forever, shouldn’t we wonder  WHAT ABOUT THIS THAT HAS ME TAKING, BUT NOT EMBRACING? SEX HAS MANY FACES, MOST OF THEM ARE UGLY & SHOULDN’T BE SEEN. HOWEVER, THERE EXISTS THAT ONE FACE THAT IS SO PRECIOUS, SO BEAUTIFUL THAT WHEN WE SEE IT, WE SHOULD WANT TO SAFE GUARD IT. THIS FACE IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF BECAUSE IT IS OUR OWN…SEX WITH ALL ITS CHARACTERISTICS, IS THAT PART OF LIFE THAT WE HUMANS DON’T UNDERSTAND, SHOULD BE CHERISHED…IT IS MERELY THE MIRROR OF A SOUL THAT IS STRIPPED BARE REVEALING THE INSECURITIES, IMPERFECTIONS & FLAWS OF THEIR LIFE…SO CAN YOU TELL ME WHAT ABOUT THIS YOU ACTUAL GET?

14 REASONS YOU SHOULD JOIN A SOCIAL NETWORK

Earlier this week I bit the bullet and joined facebook, so when I came across this article that very same day, I thought I should share with you. You NEVER know if there are persons out there that NOT apart of any social networks. Social networks have come a long way since the implementation of the idea several years ago. Social networking sites such as Friendster, Facebook and MySpace all had a big part in making social networks what they are today. They have all evolved since then and become something more than what they were back then. Now you can do so much more with a social network than just meet people and send messages. You can create photo albums, add videos, listen to your favorite music, and find old friends and so much more. Even the profile pages have evolved. Many social networks let you change the colors of your profile and even add backgrounds and change the layout.

1. Meet New People – This is the main reason social networks were created, so people can meet and find new friends. On just about every social networking site you can browse the network and meet new people. You can find people of every kind from all over the world. Or you can just focus on meeting certain types of new friends. Find friends in a certain niche or make as many friends as you can. How you do it is up to you. Everyone had their own way of making online friends. 
2. Find Old Friends – You've probably lost contact with someone in your life. Now's your chance to find them again. Could be a friend from high school, someone you used to work with, or just about anyone. Using social networking sites you can type in the name of your friends and find them, if they're on that site. More of your friends are on sites like MySpace and Facebook than you realize. Join up, create a profile and start your search. When you create your profile, don't forget to mention all the schools you went to so your friends can find you too.  
3. Chat the Day Away – Most social networks have forums. This is where you can post your thoughts, questions and opinions. It's also where you can communicate with a group of friends that all have the same interest or problem. There's usually a variety of forums to choose from. Which forum you post in all depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking to discuss a certain topic, then you would post in the forum that's set up for that particular topic. If you're looking for help with something then you'd post in the support forum. Maybe you're just looking for a discussion to get into, browse around and find something you like, and then join in.
4. Join Interest Groups – Many social networks offer groups. If they don't have a group you like, you can usually create one of your own. Groups are just that, groups of people. They all joined the group because they all had something in common. There can be groups on anything. Maybe you have a child with autism and you want to talk to other people who have children with autism, join a group. Then you can talk to other people and also get news and alerts about autism. If there isn't already a group on the network, create one.
5. Blog for Your Friends and Family – Almost every social network offers you a blog. Here you can write about any number of things. Keep friends updated on your life or write about your concerns and accomplishments. A blog can be as personal, or impersonal, as you want it to be. When you add photos to your blog you take it to a whole other level. People love to see what they're reading about, that's why newspapers hire photographers. The way your blog looks can be changed too.
6. Create Photo Albums and Share Photos – Add all your photos (On MySpace/On Facebook) and break them into albums. Not all social networks offer photo albums, but many do. Sometimes the social network will only let you add a certain number of photos to your profile. Some will only let you create one photo album. If photo albums are important to you then you'll need to shop around a little to find a social network that lets you add whole photo albums. Photo albums are a great asset to your social network profile. People love to look at photos. They may stay on your profile, or come back later, just to look through your photos. It's also a good idea if you have family that is far away and you want them to be able to see your family photos. Some social networks even offer the ability for you to turn your photo album into a slideshow. 
7. Add Videos – There are tons of videos on MySpaceTV that you can add to your MySpace profile. They're not the only social network with videos though, and they're not the only social network that lets you add videos from other sites either. Browse through all the videos and add a couple to your profile. Your friends will love you for it.
8. Add Your Own Videos – If you like creating your own videos, some social networks will let you add your own videos to the network. Any social network with their own video library will let you upload your own videos. Some other social networks will just let you upload your video to your profile.
9. Add Music – Some social networks let you add music, some don't. Music is a tough subject because if you add music under copyright, without consent from the music's owner, you could end up in a lot of trouble. That's why sites like MySpace only let you add music to your profile that's been created and added by other MySpace members. Add your favorite music from a music library on the social network. That way you can be sure you have permission to use it. Then your friends can listen and enjoy. Even create your own music wish list.
10. Add Your Own Music – If you have a band or just like creating your own music you can sometimes create a band site and upload your own music. I know MySpace offers this feature; I'm not sure about other social networks. You'll even be given a special profile page for your music to live.
11. Create Your Own Style – Colors, layouts, backgrounds and more can be changed on many social networks. Facebook does not offer this, but MySpace does. MySpace has even added a profile editor that lets you design your MySpace profile any want you want it. There are themes and backgrounds that you can choose from and add too. On top of changing your layout you can also make a few other changes to make your profile better. They're not the only social network that offers profile design though. Several of them do. Often you can change the layout of the parts of your profile and the colors, if nothing else. There are even ways to create your own profile layout. With a little tweaking or your profile you can even change the way your profile appears. Adding a few small avatars can add to the look of your profile too. Add all kinds of cool toys and apps to your profile to make it more fun for you and your readers (For MySpace/For Facebook).
12. Get Advice – Whether it's on the forum, in a group or in a niche network, you can often find the advice you need on a social network. There are groups, forums and even whole social networks on just about every subject, so you're bound to find what you need. Let's say you're looking for advice on a condition you just learned you had. Look around, I'll be there's a social network full of people just waiting to help you. If there's not, create your own.
13. Help Others – Maybe you have some advice to offer to someone else. Join a social network on that topic and answer questions. Talk to other people who are going through the same thing you're going through, or already went through.
14. Belong – Almost everyone wants to feel wanted or needed, or they just want to belong. Join a social network and create your own circle of friends. Before you know it, you'll belong. Then you'll wonder how you ever lived without them.

HIV: ¿HOW ABOUT A MENTAL CURE?

HIV/AIDS has been RAVAGING the world for more than two decades, destroying lives AND crippling societies. This disease has a MAJOR impact on us because we are all AFFECTED by this killer in some shape, form OR fashion. The PHYSICAL strain that the body goes through because of this virus is NOTHING compared to what one goes through mentally. So while the world implodes as we yield to this HELL on EARTH trying to find a cure for the symptoms, HOW ABOUT A MENTAL CURE? I get that when an HIV diagnosis is given, mental health conditions tag along with it. However, what about persons that are NOT infected with this illness? Doesn’t HIV/AIDS affect everyone on this planet? Shouldn’t there be a universal yearning to cure that which medicine can’t reach? There are a great many ways in which human beings can die and for all our tenacity, we are VERY fragile creatures. But I believe that death happens in the mind LONG before it takes place physically. And it seems that with HIV we have somewhat quarantined off a certain part of ourselves rather than deal with the issue. Ensuring that NOBODY wins…Dealing effectively with something like this isn’t as simple as taking some pills OR just practicing safe sex, it will take so much more. The thing is, are we prepared to go there? The ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL approach to managing risk misses the complexity and in and of itself is VERY dangerous. Does a simple method, PRACTICE SAFE SEX, really makes it any easier to have deeper discussions about sexual risk? Some would say YES and I do agree but how much has that served us up to this point? Given the lingering stigma surrounding HIV, it's understandable why we’ve gotten this far, but isn’t time that we go even further? Isn’t time that we hold ourselves accountable to the MORAL standards of human life? I am thinking that if we were to BUILD healthy communities where people feel they can mentally get off with one another, the focus wouldn’t be on separating who is NEGATIVE or POSITIVE and curing their symptoms…it would be about synergy AND curing the root the problem…I DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU, BUT I AM NOT HAPPY ABOUT THE FACT THAT OUR ENTIRE SEXUAL PERSONA HAS TO SHIFT & THE THINGS THAT HAS BEEN BUILDING IN OUR MINDS FOR ALL THESE YEARS IS CLOUDED BY ANXIETY…OUR CROTCH IS GONE, MAYBE IT NEVER EXISTED IN THE FIRST PLACE, BUT WE ARE NOW FACED WITH ONE OPTION & THAT OPTION IS TO TAKE THIS DISEASE ON HALF OF THE WAY OR FULL ON…SO CURING THIS DISEASE IS GREAT, BUT TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE AN ATTEMPT TO RE-START OR REBOOT THE HEART OF A HALF BRAIN DEAD  INDIVIDUAL…& WE ALL KNOW WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THE HUMAN MIND STARTS TO GO DEAD…DON’T WE? DESPITE THE FACT THAT THIS DISEASE NEEDS TO BE CURED, I THINK THAT OUR MENTAL STATE NEEDS TO CLEARED IF WE ARE TO BRING A SUCCESSFUL CONCLUSION TO THIS MOVIE THAT HAS NO SCRIPT…