LIFE IS A CIRCLE...

        

“…EVERYTHING AN INDIAN DOES IS IN A CIRCLE, & THAT IS BECAUSE THE POWER OF THE WORLD ALWAYS WORKS IN CIRCLES, & EVERYTHING TRIES TO BE ROUND…THE SKY IS ROUND…& SO ARE ALL THE STARS. THE WIND, IN ITS GREATEST POWER, WHIRLS. BIRDS MAKE THEIR NESTS IN CIRCLES, FOR THEIRS IS THE SAME RELIGION AS OUR…EVEN THE SEASONS FORM A GREAT CIRCLE IN THEIR CHANGING, & ALWAYS COME BACK AGAIN TO WHERE THEY WERE. THE LIFE OF A MAN IS A CIRCLE FROM CHILDHOOD TO CHILDHOOD, & SO IT IS IN EVERYTHING WHERE POWER MOVES.” – BLACK ELK

ANGEL OF MINE

The song came to American fame when R&B singer Monica covered the song (with altered lyrics) and released it as the third single from her second studio album The Boy Is Mine (1998), following the successful chart performances of previous single "The First Night," the song reached #1 on the Billboard Hot 100.

OLDIE, BUT GOODIE: ¿WTF IS DATING?

THIS ENTRY MAKES ME SMILE BECAUSE THINKING ABOUT MY PAST & THE MEN THAT ASSUMED CERTAIN ABOUT WHAT WE WERE DOING WHEN WE CLEARLY AGREED ON WHAT WAS/IS GOING ON JUST MAKES ME SMILE. IT IS SO AMAZING HOW QUICKLY WE LABEL ANOTHER OUR THIS OR THAT & IN MOST CASES IT EVEN MORE AMAZING HOW WE SKIP DATING ALL TOGETHER & JUST SLIDE RIGHT INTO A RELATIONSHIP. NONETHELESS, I THINK THAT WE NEED TO HAVE A  CLEAR UNDERSTANDING OF OURSELVES BEFORE WE ATTEMPT THE COURTSHIP PROCESS. WHEN I DATED & IT WAS MORE THAN ONE GUY @ A TIME (OF COURSE THEY KNEW ABOUT IT) I DID WHAT OTHERS CONSIDERED WHORE-ISH, BUT I SAW/SEE IT AS AN IMPORTANT STEP IN FINDING THAT ONE SPECIAL PERSON. 

How does one decipher what DATING is when we live in world where the UNSPOKEN carries a lot of power? DATING is supposed to afford us the opportunity to COURT and GET TO KNOW an individual whose COMMON interest is each other. Yet what many of us call DATING is actually NOT and we are so far from the concept that it makes me want to SCREAM! So If DATING is, any SOCIAL ACTIVITY performed as a pair or even a group with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP or as a SPOUSE and the word refers to the act of agreeing on a time and "date" when a pair can meet and engage in some social activity; ¿WTF IS DATING? 

REMEMBER, REMEMBER THE 5th OF NOVEMBER

Beneath this mask there is more than flesh. 

Beneath this mask there is an idea, 

Mr. Creedy, and ideas are bulletproof. - 

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The Gunpowder Treason and plot;

I see of no reason why Gunpowder Treason

Should ever be forgot.

¿R 2 HEADS BETTER THAN 1?

2 HEADS...

¿OR?

...1

¡LABELS, LABELS, LABELS!

LABELS ARE FILING. LABELS ARE FOR CLOTHING. LABEL ARE NOT FOR PEOPLE. - MARTINA NAVRATILOVA

¡POLLS DO NOT VOTE, PEOPLE DO!

A woman in a hot air balloon realized she was lost.

She lowered her altitude and spotted a man in a boat below. She shouted to him, "Excuse me, can you help me? I promised a friend I would meet him an hour ago, but I don't know where I am." The man consulted his portable GPS and replied, "You're in a hot air balloon, approximately 30 feet above ground elevation of 2,346 feet above sea level. You are at 31 degrees, 14.97 minutes north latitude and 100 degrees, 49.09 minutes west longitude.

She rolled her eyes and said, "You must be an Obama Democrat."

"I am," replied the man. "How did you know?"

"Well," answered the balloonist, "everything you told me is technically correct. But I have no idea what to do with your information, and I'm still lost. Frankly, you've not been much help to me."

The man smiled and responded, "You must be a Republican."

"I am," replied the balloonist. "How did you know?"

"Well," said the man, "you don't know where you are -- or where you are going. You've risen to where you are, due to a large quantity of hot air. You made a promise you have no idea how to keep, and you expect me to solve your problem. 
You're in exactly the same position you were in before we met, but somehow, now it's my fault."

¿WHY SO ROUGH ON A 'BOTTOM'?

To us gay men being called ‘a big ole bottom’ is usually a put-down in the form of joke. Imagine being @ a club and resident drag queen working the crowd picks out an audience member and asks, ‘are you a top or a bottom?” And before her target has gotten two words out, she howls, “Bottom!” The essence of the joke is: Don’t kid yourself, honey. Nobody thinks you’re a man; you’re just a big girl. Now imagine that very same man approaching you with a come on like, ‘what time is it?’ So you look @ your wrist but you can tell for some reason or another that he's not interested in the time, he wants to F&CK! You're not TOO keen on getting with him because he was in the spotlight and you’d consider fooling around with him if it wasn’t SO obvious what role he would play sexually but...Isn’t it something how most guys that take on the role as a bottom would say that it is one of THE PRIME JOYS OF A GAY MAN’S SEX LIFE? They make it the center of their erotic universe no matter how you want it serve. However, if one were to do a survey on how gay men feel about taking a dick, most would make you feel as if you asked them if they have HIV or something because in the gay community taking a dick is the last thing most gay men want to admit they do.

But why is that? Why is there shame attached to bottoming? I know that there are MANY myths and fears about anal sex, and it’s normal to feel them, but…Humans are the only animal that can face each other in sex. I think we have this ability so we can create a potential bond. Do you think we as gay men could ever have sex with each other without the psychological pleasure n’ pain attached? To see another gay man as less than because you ‘top’ him sexually means we are making something that is natural, feel unnatural. If we continue to believe that the only REAL man is the one who gets hard and does the work, then that keeps the fear I’m not a man ALIVE! Condemning a gay man for ‘bottoming’ causes repression that will seep out into the community in less than desirable ways that only agitate our psyche; and I find it SO stupid to bask in pleasure of ‘topping’ a ‘bottom’ only to hand out shame as soon as you ejaculate.

¡G'MORNING NOVEMBER!

EVEN IF SOMETHING IS LEFT UNDONE, EVERYONE MUST TAKE TIME TO SIT STILL & WATCH THE LEAVES TURN. - ELIZABETH LAWRENCE