¡GO @ IT HARD!

WHATEVER YOU DO TONIGHT...

¡GO @ IT HARD!

OLDIE, BUT GOODIE: BLACK (THE FINANCIAL STRUGGLE)

GIVEN THE STATE OF THE WORLD’S ECONOMY TODAY, I THOUGHT THIS ENTRY WOULD AN INTERESTING RE~READ. I THINK IT IS SO SAD HOW THE WORDS IN THIS ENTRY ARE THE REALITY FOR SO MANY OF US…NONETHELESS I’VE DECIDED TO FIGHT BACK & NOT ALLOW MY FINANCIAL (OR LACK THEREOF) CIRCUMSTANCES GET IN THE WAY OF MY LIFE…& AS 2011 MOVES ALONG, I HOPE MANY OF YOU CAN FIND A WAY TO SAY THE SAME.

MONEY IS POWER: IT IS SEXY & SEX IS GOOD, NECESSARY AND CAN BECOME A BURDEN. The giving, taking, and receiving of money, like many other strange and seemingly unnatural habits, can become a strong fetish. It is symbolic and concrete. It is all things to all kinds of people. Hence I am writing about my financial dominance or lack thereof.

¿WHAT WOULD YOU DO?...IT GOES DEEPER!

SO I GOT TO WORK, GOT A CALL THIS MORNING FROM CO-WORKER'S MISTRESS & SHE TOLD ME TO LET HIM KNOW SHE WOULDN'T BE @ HER PLACE OF WORK TODAY IF HE TRIES TO REACH HER. NOW I DECIDED THAT TO TELL HER WHAT TYPE OF BB HE WANTS BECAUSE I DID ASK HIM & HE TOLD ME. NOW THINGS TOOK AN INTERESTING TURN AS SHE ASKED ME TO GET IT FOR HER {CRICKETS} I TOLD HER THAT I WOULD THINK ABOUT IT & LET HER KNOW. NOW THERE IS ONE CRUCIAL PIECE OF INFORMATION I DIDN'T MENTION IN MY PREVIOUS ENTRY, & THAT IS MY CO-WORKER IS ACTUALLY MY MANAGER...SO DO I TELL HER I WON'T DO IT & HAVE HER TELL HIM THAT OR SHOULD I DO IT & TRY TO PRETEND AS IF IT NEVER HAPPENED? 

¿WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR CO-WORKER'S SWEETHEART, MISTRESS, JUMP~OFF ASKED YOU TO FIND OUT WHAT FOR HER WHAT HE WANTS AS A GIFT? I DON'T INVOLVE MYSELF IN OTHER PEOPLE'S 'AFFAIRS' & HAVE NO PROBLEM FINDING OUT THAT TASK FOR HER, BUT I CAN'T HELP BUT WONDER IF I AM HYPOCRITE FOR DOING SO SINCE I MET HIS WIFE & SHE IS VERY COOL. NOW I DON'T KNOW WHAT TYPE OF MARRIAGE THEY HAVE & HE HASN'T HIDDEN THE FACT THAT MARRIAGE IS SOMETHING THAT IS KEEPING HIM BACK...SO BACK TO MY QUESTION, I BELIEVE IN KARMA & CAN'T HELP BUT WONDER IF DOING THIS SEEMINGLY SIMPLE TASK FOR,  MEANS I AM AIDING THEIR AFFAIR?

12 GAYS OF X-MAS: THE TWELFTH GAY OF X-MAS...

MAY THE TWELFTH  GAY OF X-MAS BRING YOU THE GIFT OF FELLOWSHIP! We human beings, by our very nature, love to gather. Yet as much as we crave community, the rigors of real life frequently interfere with our efforts to come together with likeminded individuals. For this reason, fellowship is crucial to humanity's wellbeing now more than ever. When people with similar interests, ideals, or aspirations come together as a group, a community is built that provides a new dimensionality to our earthly experiences. The formation of a fellowship is like an invitation welcoming all those desiring companionship and camaraderie into a circle of support. Groups of likeminded individuals are to some extent inherently exclusionary, being that they serve as a supportive environment in which people who have something in common can gather. Yet such groups can also transcend the boundaries that might otherwise keep people apart. So remember that you must try to ward off any discouragement you feel when those intrigued by your fellowship’s purpose are not ready to contribute actively. They are likely waiting to see how it evolves and whether you are truly committed to serving as its heart and soul. If the group you have founded is a positive influence in the life of even a single individual, it is well worth it. Your intention to bring people together will be the seed that develops into a source of nurturance and community that stays true to its purpose long after its initial inception.

WHAT HIS TATTOO SAYS ABOUT HIM...

MANY OF WE GAY MEN HAVE ISSUES WITH MEN THAT ARE NON-COMMITTAL, SO WHEN A MAN PERMANENTLY MARKS HIS BODY WITH TATTOO, THE IMAGE CAN TELL YOU A GREAT DEAL ABOUT THE MAN HE IS. SO HERE SOME OF THE CRAZIEST TATTOOS WE'VE SEEN OR HEARD OF, ALONG WITH AN ANALYSIS OF WHAT THEY MIGHT MEAN ABOUT THE MAN UNDER THE INK…

12 GAYS OF X-MAS: THE ELEVENTH GAY OF X-MAS...

MAY THE ELEVENTH GAY OF X-MAS BRING YOU THE GIFT OF CONSEQUENCES! Every action you take has a cause and effect. The influence we wield is infinite. All motive and action affects the cosmos in some way. The principle of cause and effect is the truth that allows us to change ourselves and the world around us for the better. However, this same universal law is also at work when change is not at the forefront of our minds. Our intentions flow forever outward in the form of energy, affecting both the people closest to us and billions of individuals we will likely never meet. For this reason, we should strive always to speak, think, and behave with great thoughtfulness and compassion. The virtues we choose to embody can inspire joy and integrity in the lives of countless people, whether we touch their existence directly or not.

¡THROW AWAY THAT SCALE IN 2011!

Health is not a numerical concept and cannot be defined using statistics. Human beings, however, tend to want to quantify well-being into easily understandable figures. We feel compelled to ascribe numbers to every aspect of wellness, from the qualities of our food to our fitness levels to the physical space we occupy. As a consequence of social pressures, we turn our attention away from health and focus instead on the most contentious of these figures—weight—checking our scales to see how we measure up to our peers and role models. Yet each of us is equipped to gauge our relative healthfulness without any equipment whatsoever. When we have achieved a state of wellness, we feel buoyant and energetic. Some of us are naturally slim, while others will always be curvy. No matter what our weight, we can use the cues we receive from our physical and mental selves to judge how healthy we really are. 

12 GAYS OF X-MAS: THE TENTH GAY OF X-MAS...

MAY THE TENTH GAY OF X-MAS BRING YOU THE GIFT OF KNOWING! Knowing is the KEY to getting what you want. The first step to getting what you want in life is knowing what you want. This may sound obvious, but a surprising number of us are going through life without really coming to terms with the truth of what we want. There are many reasons for this, and they range from parental influences that curb our imaginations to external factors that curb our ability to take action. We may feel that getting too caught up in exploring our deepest desires is wasted energy when it seems we want things beyond our grasp. This is a very practical attitude and has its benefits, but it can be safely balanced with a more imaginative and unlimited approach to the question of what we want.

THE 90s VS. 00s

THE 90s

¿OR?

THE 00s


Considering that we've just completed the first decade of the 3rd Millennium, and considering the last 20 years from entertainment to politics, from fashion to slang, and ALL the events that shaped your neck of the woods, which decade would you say was better...

12 GAYS OF X-MAS: THE NINTH GAY OF X-MAS...

MAY THE NINTH GAY OF X-MAS BRING YOU THE GIFT OF REGONITION! We cannot recognize greatness in others unless we too posses that same quality in ourselves. A person who is said to possess greatness stands apart from others in some way, usually by the size or originality of their vision and their ability to manifest that vision. And yet those who recognize that greatness, whether they display it themselves or not, also have greatness within them; otherwise, they could not see it in another. In many ways, the achievements of one person always belong to many people for we accomplish nothing alone in this world. People who display greatness rely upon others who are able to see as they do, to listen, encourage, and support. Without those people who recognize greatness and move in to support it, even the greatest ideas, works of art, and political movements would remain unborn.

¿HOW ABOUT SOME ADVICE FOR TWENTY ELEVEN?

Isn’t it AMAZING how most of us come into this life without memory of our prior life so that we focus on the life we are living now? Many of us wonder why we do not remember who we were before we were born. We wonder what it was like to be a soul without a body and what it will be like to be one again. There are many possible reasons for this deep forgetting, one of which is that remembering would probably impinge upon our ability to fully commit to this life. Experiencing life on earth without any memory of an alternative existence allows us to be here COMPLETELY, so when I came upon these instructions for that are a guide for this journey, I HAD to share them with you!

12 GAYS OF X-MAS: THE EIGHTH GAY OF X-MAS...

MAY THE SEVENTH GAY OF X-MAS BRING THE GIFT OF AFFIRMATION! WHY? BECAUSE YOU ARE YOU! In all the world, there is no one else exactly like you. Everything that comes out of you is authentically yours, because you alone chose it — You own everything about you: your body, your feelings, your mouth, your voice, all your actions, whether they be to others or yourself. You own your fantasies, your dreams, your hopes, your fears. You own your triumphs and successes, all your failures and mistakes.

¡HAPPY 2011!

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