My Fellow Ga(Y)te-keepers

Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense. - Lord Buddha

Tuesday 21 February 2012

WATCH: ‘I WILL MARRY YOU,' A SUMPTUOUS MARRIAGE EQUALITY AD FROM ITALY


This is refreshing: In a PSA entitled “I Will Marry You,” the Italian LGBT advocacy group Arcigay has no doubt unleashed a finely tuned, almost poetic video that looks at ordinary life and same-sex relationships very much like Australia’s “It’s Time,” which The Advocate called “possibly the most beautiful ad for marriage equality we’ve seen.”

Below, sprinkled with music by Lorenzo ‘Jovanotti’ Cherubini, yellow sunlight and the sound of two men invariably in love flutter all around like snowflakes. In other words, the video might knock your heart out. (via Instinct Magazine)








THEGA(Y)TE-KEEPER PRESENTS: DEREK LASSITER - VOCALIST/COMPOSER


As a vocalist/musician Derek Lassiter’s power is in his ability to render the subject he’s writing about as cleanly as possible. For him, God isn’t in the details but in simplicity. Lassiter bravely steps from behind the false front and in doing so reveals the sobering truth about his life. In this sense he is a poet's musician.

Born in the South Bronx, Derek Lassiter spent the first eleven years of his life moving around the neighborhoods of that New York City borough. At age 11 he moved to the suburbs of Pennsylvania to live with his maternal Grandmother.

“Both places had a profound effect on me and I learned at an early age just how disparate the world could be. My mother listened to Soul and 60’s folk music, my Grandmother didn’t have a stereo and only listened to Country and Western on a little radio in the kitchen. But then again my Grandmother also sent us to a Baptist church where I heard Gospel for the first time.” 

When his Grandmother became too ill to care for him and his siblings, Derek spent his teen years moving between foster homes in Pennsylvania. He recounts that with each move he was exposed to an ever growing list of musical genres.

“I can track the movements of my life through music. Whenever I talk to my older brother about a song and we’re trying to remember the year we’ll say; “oh yeah, that’s when we lived at...”

Eventually Derek settled in San Francisco where he currently lives and works. In the early 90’s he fronted several bands and played many of the local clubs including Slim’s, Great American Music Hall, Café du Nord and numerous cafes and private events.

In 2006 he embarked on a “solo” endeavor composing his own music and writing lyrics. He’s collaborated with some of the finest musicians for hislive shows including Tammy Hall, pc muñoz, Marc Weibel, Art Khu, Alcide Marshall and Tom Freund to name a few.

A few years have passed since the release of Witness. Shortly after the completion of that project he started writing a song called Music Outside. The inspiration for the song came when he remembered that at one point in his life he had consciously made a decision to stop doing anything creative: no music, no writing, acting or photography. Those years were very dark and desperate times for him. 

HERE IS THE LINK TO DOWNLOAD HIS MUSIC.







Monday 20 February 2012

MONOGAMY REDEFINED...


Samuel Colt & Chris Porter, two adult film stars, find l’amour.

COLT (Left) We met in 2010 on Twitter. His picture was cute, so I started chatting with him. I was doing an appearance at View Bar. That’s what I do a lot—travel to bars and strip down to underwear and dance. I said, “Why don’t you come and say, Hi? ” I never do that.

PORTER I got there right at the beginning. I said, “Hey,” and he was like, “Do I know you?” I was, like, “Bitch, you told me to come here.” And then he remembered. We went into the basement and proceeded to make out. He had a scene the next day, so we couldn’t have sex. The next time we saw each other was at a convention the following month, and that’s when I knew I liked him. When I had to leave, I was bummed I was going back to New York and he was going to San Francisco. I didn’t know when I would see him again. I tweeted that I wanted to move. And he responded that his roommate had moved out. The next month, I moved in with him. But there was this guy there he was dating that
he met the day before I met him. I was like, Damn.

COLT I didn’t know that he had those intentions! I couldn’t have sex with a roommate. That’s a good policy! But every time we’d go out of town and do appearances together, we would have sex the entire time.

PORTER We’d go home and act like it didn’t happen. A couple of months later, he broke up with the guy, and I was secretly, like, Yes! At Folsom, we hooked up with this couple together.

COLT It was romantic, it really was. We had anonymous strangers abusing us, but we were having an intimate moment. Then, we went to HustlaBall in Berlin, and that’s when we really started to like each other. The heterosexual view of being faithful is so outdated. We don’t have to have sex only with each other to be faithful. I’m completely faithful to him, emotionally and with my heart. I can still get gang-banged and want to go back home to him.

PORTER We didn’t want monogamy. We knew that wouldn’t work. We’re both horny all of the time. We have rules. We don’t hook up with someone if we’re in the same city without the other one being involved. But if he’s out of town, I’ll hook up with someone. I’ll call and be like, “Is that OK?” We’re honest and communicate.

THOUGHTS?



MONDAY MUSICAL MOTIVATION: MIRROR


Surprise, surprise! Lil' Wayne teams up with R&B/pop crooner Bruno Mars in "Mirror", a bonus track included on the deluxe version of Weezy's "Tha Carter IV" album - Wow, this came out of nowhere! I guess there's enough reason now to get the album, ha! "Mirror" is a SMASH, and if Lil' Wayne is intelligent, he will release this as a single ASAP. Radios would eat this up!!

"Mirror" by Lil Wayne Featuring Bruno Mars is currently (week 07, 2012) in the HOT100 Billboard charts at position 57. 



RUPAUL'S DRAG RACE, SEASON 4: EPISODE 3 - GLAMAZONS VS. CHAMPIONS


Week three, two queens gone and eleven to go. This week there was a really incredible special guest, PIYAH MARTELL who is a YouTube star. Piyah rose to fame on YouTube because she lip syncs and makes amazing music video in drag, but she has no legs. Hers is a story of triumph and it was a really great moment.




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